The cute boy is soooo sweet, hard working, honest, cooks and did i mention cute. However, after 15+ hours of phone conversation in 5 days and a pending date, he has not said anything that has stimulated me mentally. I'm not expecting a rocket science dissertation, but maybe a mention of a book read or an insightful remark here and there. Maybe I'm getting a little bit ahead of myself. I mean after all, I'm not trying to get married. I'm just a little afraid that the novelty will get old quickly and then I may actually want to be indulged in some witty banter peppered with moments of inspiration and muted brilliance. This isn't too much to ask, since I will happily return the effort.
Another bone of contention is that he has never asked me what I do for a living, what I'm studying in school or what my future goals/objectives are. I've heard that men don't want a women that is super focused on her career, but to not at all be curious about what I do all day seems extreme. And is that ok with me???? I don't really think so.
Now this is my quandary, I could definitely see myself having fun with him, dating and enjoying life for a little while. But will I get a little antsy when we can't have a conversation of any real depth. Or when he doesn't see why I have to stay in this weekend and finish a paper. And then will I have to look to his looks and island sexcapades to placate me. I mean, that doesn't really sound bad. But what if he wants to marry me at some point. Will I agree and miss out on something that is important to me or will I say no and break his heart. Its easier to get out of a relationship before it gets started. But that also means that I won't have given it a real chance. This must be the delima of many a man who marries a trophy wife. I guess women are really becoming equal. Thanks for nothing Gloria Steinem!
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